This is great ! jgnat, thanks for the tips, though ironically i hadn't been using the term 'the truth' for a long long time until i started writing on these forums, ooops. The rest was really great though, huge thanks.
The funny thing is some churches, especially the older ones are actually beautiful buildings to look at - on the outside. I can actually look at them from afar and appreciate all the hard work that went into building them, it's just when i go in them that the heebie jeebies start.
I only do weddings, funerals and recently a christening (which sent me loooooopy!). I'm so anti christening i felt such a hypocrit for being there but i didn't want to let me friend down by not going.
I don't want to single anyone else out in particular as you're all saying terrific stuff so thank you to all for keeping my little query going. ooo gosh I think i'm going to be doing lots of chatting on here over time, apologies in advance for the waffling i do later.